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Fatima Mohammed's avatar

Omg! Everything you wrote!!! I loved reading this so much and as a girl born and raised in Nigeria, I could relate. I realised I never truly desired motherhood or marriage a couple of years ago (I just thought it was inevitable). I wrote about this on my Substack, on how becoming an aunty at 14 opened my eyes to what this motherhood thing really is and made me realise I don't want it. Reading this is affirming and I feel seen. I hope you continue to bask in your childfree life and I hope to be like you when I'm your age 🤭❤️

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Oluwatobiloba's avatar

Auntie at 14 is crazy! I can imagine the support you had to give willingly and grudgingly too.🤭

Thanks for your kind words. ❤️

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Rochelle Hawkins's avatar

Beautifully written

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Oluwatobiloba's avatar

Thank you.

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