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Ronke's avatar

Hi stranger on the internet 😂👋🏾 I resonated SO MUCH with “In the past, such situations left me analyzing what I did wrong. Now, I call it out and move on” and had to comment.

I used to see any date less than perfect as somehow proof of something wrong with me, and it made dating so unnecessarily painful. Now, with more peace in my single-hood, I’m learning to hold dating more loosely, being curious about the person across from me, and paying attention to how I feel around them.

Thank you for sharing these valuable lessons from your unhinged experiences 😂💗

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Oluwatobiloba's avatar

Hi Ronnie! You get it. 😂

I know there is a lot of talk on the internet about healing and self awareness that may appear cosmetic. But it is a real thing and very rewarding when you do the work to correct old habits that don't serve you. Knowing that your value is not tied to being partnered or not is so freeing.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts ❤️

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Patricia Tare's avatar

Crazy how some of men can be non committed, it's very disgusting. They want the lady to be under their feet, doing anything they tell them.

Am sorry to say but this guy is an asshole. What was he looking for exactly if he knew that he wasn't interested.

I remember a 35 years old man who enjoys sending him his sexual experiences with ladies, thinking it's fun.

I told him that was rude, he was being defensive. Still enjoys dating 16/17 year old teenagers.

I remember I had to tell him to grow up and get married, what kept out of his mouth was a man can get married at anytime he wants, or whenever it seems it fit, and that he needs money to settle, that shows an irresponsible man who is not ready to grow. Because if truly you want to get married, you won't be going around chasing young girls.

BTW, me and this guy were never dating. He was a casual friend I made.

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Oluwatobiloba's avatar

Yeah that's an immature man!

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tobi's avatar

“He drove two hours from Liverpool to meet”

warra gentle man! 🥹🥹

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Oluwatobiloba's avatar

Tobi, I can't tell if you're trolling or not 🤭

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tobi's avatar

namesake, if you look closely you’ll realize it’s a double edged sword. 😉

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