Archive - This Nigerian Life Substack

Childfree and not Ashamed.

A little encouragement for women who don't desire motherhood.

May 27 •

April 2025

A club crush, a forehead kiss & a case of flaky Nigerian men.

and flirting is fun, regardless.

Apr 30 •

March 2025

Always Trust your Instincts

and a reminder to stop being so nice!

Mar 28 •

February 2025

Respect and Accountability Should be a Balancing Act

and we need to get real about some behaviours in our families.

Feb 5 •

December 2024

Making Better Choices Leaves you With a lot of Empty Space.

And it is a good thing.

Dec 13, 2024 •

October 2024

We Need More Stubborn Women.

When you show up unapologetically, you encourage others to do the same.

Oct 22, 2024 •

As a recovering people pleaser, this past weekend was a refreshing chance to step back and let go of my “fix it” attitude.

Oct 1, 2024 •

September 2024

Human Design for Dummies 🌚

HD is quite complicated but it promises a better understanding of self. In this post, I cover the basics of the Generator type.

Sep 19, 2024 •

The Flag Football Team That Wasn't So Friendly

Being kicked off a team hurt and left me feeling pissed off.

Sep 6, 2024 •

August 2024

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